|Posted on April 16, 2012 at 12:35 AM|
Dogs are like us in many ways. They live within families that we call packs. They work together, have rules, and take care of one another. They live within a society, although it's not quite as advanced as ours. Some get along great, while others struggle, just as we do with each other. In this note/article/blog or whatever it is, I'd like to talk briefly about my most recent findings while studying dog behavior. After all, all of us scientist types have to publish our findings one way or another.
I've developed a new system of helping dogs during the rehabilitation process. Or, I should say, I've recently organized it into a system. I've been using this system for years, but never really had a name or system for it. I guess that's part of the growth process though. We all eventually find a way to eventually organize our thoughts and opinions. Here are the five necessities I've identified as the key elements each dog needs to maintain happiness and stability. I call it S.P.R.E.D. (Maybe I should tattoo it on my knuckles like the love guru and his D.R.A.M.A method- no? Okay).
1.) Structure - This simply means that dogs require a structured lifestyle. They need a leader and rules. They need to know who's in charge and who's there to love them. Basically, they need a family of some kind. Even stray dogs are known to pack up with each other to survive. Lone wolves are not alone for too long. They eventually find a mate and start a new pack. Structure is important, as even the canine kind need love and support!
2. Purpose - I believe that purpose is the driving force behind all living things. With out purpose, what's the point? Why are we here? Dogs need purpose too. Dogs need to know what they are supposed to do and how to do it. Or in other words, they need a job. Whether it's to love you, comfort you, or keep the mailman away, they need something to do and a good reason to do it. If you do not give your dog a purpose, he/she will find one for him/herself.
3. Routine - Dogs love routine. They thrive and count on it. Dogs need to know when they walk is coming, or when you are coming home for work. They love knowing what to expect and when to expect it. Although dogs can handle surprises well, they prefer to know what's coming. They will even keep you to the routine after it's established. If it's time to walk and you forget, they may reminded you by getting the leash for you. Or if it's time to eat, they may paw at the bowl or bring it to you. Routines can even be loosely based. For instance, my dogs don't eat at certain times during the day. They eat as soon as the humans finish. If we don't immediately feed them after we finish eating, Oreo, their "spokesdog" immediately brings me his bowl as the other two intensely stare at us in wait.
4. Exercise - This doggy necessity is one that you'd think was the most obvious. However, a lot of people neglect to provide their dogs with the exercise they require. All dogs need to be walked every day. Even if they are small dogs that do not require vigorous exercise, they still need to get out and move. Dogs can get "cabin fever" just as people do, which can lead to unhealthy behavior problems. Walking your dog is not only good exercise, it's also a great way to bond with your dog and establish leadership outside of the home. A dog with a lot of energy and no where to direct that energy, means trouble. Dogs will find somewhere to get rid of that excess energy, and that could mean destroyed furniture to you. Ever heard the saying, "A tired dog is a happy dog?"
5. Discipline - The least favorite of the five, but definitely one of the most important. Discipline is a necessity that even dogs will enforce one each other, and sometimes on their people. With out discipline there is no order. All living things need discipline to stay on track. This does not mean hitting, spanking, electrocuting, or anything harsh. It simply means that the rules of the pack get enforced. Dogs will bite, nip, or tackle each other. They also muzzle each other, which is where the one giving the discipline will place his mouth over the mouth of the dog receiving the discipline. It's also a way for dogs to remind each other who's in charge.
So there you have it. The SPRED method and what each part means in a nutshell. I could share how to obtain and maintain each of the five elements of this method, but I think I'll save that for my book.
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